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Thursday, April 06, 2006

Response to a coward...

This is my last response to hateful comments left a few posts back...

Last note:
I will not respond to you again because I try to waste as little time as possible on moronic jerks.

Check out the web address in your browser… it is www.myVENTspace.blogspot.com.
If you are stupid enough to judge my entire being by these blog entries alone, then you apparently need a refill in that inflatable brain of yours.
This is the place I come to blow off steam about the stupid people and situations I encounter from time to time (like you). I also share what I believe are inspirational stories and thoughts as well as photos.
My family raised me to believe that humor can help you through any trial. We try not to dwell on the crappy stuff going on in our lives for too long. That does not mean we do not stay up nights worried about one another. It simply means we are supportive by being there for each other.
If you really knew my family… you would know that.
You keep saying you want me to change, yet it seems you are the only one with this warped view of who I am. Yes, from time to time, my family and I spew not so nice words at each other, its called communication. I tell my family when they piss me off, and they in turn tell me when I piss them off. We do not go behind each other’s backs. We do not leave hate filled anonymous letters to each other. We get things out in the open where they can be dealt with so we can move on.
If you think I do not care about my Mom, you should ask her some time how violently I react when anyone attacks her weight. You should be there when ANY of my family is in the hospital. I always am.
So if I make jokes and seem to shrug off my Mom’s surgery as a minor thing…
DEAL WITH IT!
You are not in my home when I am up all night worried that she will have trouble breathing after this surgery. You are not beside me when I have nightmares about what my life would be without her. You were not around when I fought the insurance company that tried to deny Mom’s reduction surgery (and won by the way).
So in closing, you ignorant grammatically challenged amoeba,
GO SUCK MY BIG TOE!!!

12 comments:

Mind Curry said...

whoa!! sweety! cool!
forget about such people who leave weird comments on your blog. that aint gonna stop. so no point losing your cool..just ignore as many as you can or laugh them off.

for now, blog on! :)

Melissa said...

mind curry - Great name! Thanks for stopping by... sorry you had to catch me in the middle of dealing with not so nice people. But thank you for your support!

shruti said...

hmm ...dear dont let someone ( anonymous) affect you .. I know it hurts when people dont understand you which most people dont not even your parents .. and I have learnt one thing .. not to let anething affect me happiness or sadness.. and also not try to prove myself to aneone .. neither am i answerable to aneone nor do i need to give justifications ... when u reach tth stage in life..u become much more peaceful ..

Melissa said...

shruti - Thank you... one day I hope to be bulletproof to othere's comments and opinions... for now I am not. I deal with angry much better than I deal with hurt. Thank you so much for stopping by.

MJ said...

Hello,

I want to state that I know the family. I do not know them well, but well enough to know that each member has a mouth and operates it very well.

If someone has something to say to another they will. Each person has an opinion... so have it ... elsewhere. If you are not the person involved then be supportive or stay out.

I remember all the fuss about who was going to be the new pope. OK, if you are not Catholic then it is not your business.... likewise... you are not paying for or caring for the family. You did not even have enough testicular fortitude to say who you are. Put up or shut up...

It is not you, not your deal. I was taught if you have nothing nice to say... keep it to yourself. Adopt that please Anonymous

MJ

Melissa said...

MJ - Thank you... ::smile:: you tell things as they are...

Solan said...

oh ! that was some resentment girl, love it when people do that, now i really really want to read watever the other had posted...just curious u know.

Melissa said...

solan - it is still there... in the comment section under the March 29th post... As well as some responses from people who do understand who I am... I tried to be nice... but they didn't want me to be nice... :P

siren said...

Oh wow, Melissa - I'm a little late with my blog reading, but it sounds like you're having a hell of a time. Keep your chin up, stay strong and true to yourself. Nobody else can live your life or even know what you deal with, so I hope you can remain confident in knowing that you're a strong and very sweet girl. There's nothing wrong with venting; it's better than holding it in and letting it drag you down. So you do what feels right, don't worry about anything else.

Sol said...

Melissa ~ i see there was a war a-brewin' while i was away.

im sorry u had to lose ur cool.
hey, nobodys perfect ::grins::

ur a beautiful person, when i look @ you i see hope. that some people can and will try to make things better for itself, for those they care about.

and all this..from a cynic.

Sol said...

itself = themselves
i mean ;)

Melissa said...

siren - ::smile:: Thank you... its nice to hear that...

sol - ::giggle:: sometime loosing your cool is called for! :) Thank you... And by the way... your not a cynic... simply a hopeless romantic who has lost his way... ::HUGS::